Therapy, Friendship and Secrets

When you go to a therapist, you can talk about whatever you want to a complete stranger and they listen to you and help you work through your problems. Writing this blog is like that. I can write whatever I like, control what we talk about and people are able to comment and help me or talk to me; people that are complete strangers.


I've always liked the idea of therapy, having someone to talk to and knowing they are not allowed to talk about anything you tell them. Having someone to confide in, like a best friend. Well, I do have best friends that I can tell anything to and I do tell them some things. I think secrets are what keeps friends closer. If someone tells you a secret, it obviously means they trust you enough to share something close to them. And that's the same if you tell them a secret.


What makes a good friend though? Someone you can have a few laughs with, text occasionally. I'm really picky with who I chose to be my friends. Sure, there is a lot of people who I get on with, I like to think I am an approachable person, but I only have three main people I consider friends. And that's okay. I don't mind not having many friends; having people to confide in is enough.


Quote of the day:

Everyone wants to be the sun to brighten up everyone's life, but why not be the moon, to brighten the darkest hour'

-Blogger Girl